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Although we live in an age when any information is available and it is possible to get answers to all questions if desired, male sexual complexes spoil the life of many representatives of the stronger sex no less than before. There can be many reasons: the peculiarities of upbringing, the development of the porn industry, the opinion of others, social and cultural norms. And although the vast majority of complexes are located exclusively in the head, it is not easier for men. So what worries them in this area?
small size
This complex is one of the most popular. For some reason, some men think that the bigger the penis size nature has given him, the better lover he will be. When women hear about this, they smile, because we are all different, both men and women. Not all girls would be happy to have an intimate meeting with the owner of great "dignity", because an act with such a "macho" would bring them nothing but unpleasant sensations and pain. Yes, someone may dream of the mythical "20+" cm, but such units are few. The average size will be quite enough for most, the main thing is how a man uses what nature gave him!
And if it doesn't stand up?
Any man is afraid of this, like fire, and may even start to shy away from intimate meetings. If this happens more than once, it can lead a man to a serious mental disorder, which is called the syndrome of anxious expectation of sexual failure, and here he cannot do without the help of a doctor.
A man can really "not get up" because of his young age, inexperience, long-term abstinence, watching porn too often. The reasons can be even more banal: the partner is not attracted, the presence of bad habits or the most common fatigue mixed with stress. People are not robots, anything happens. And if something really bothers a man, it would be better to rule out health problems and understand that everything else is just working moments that happen to everyone.
Quick end
Thanks to the development of porn, some men believe that sexual intercourse, which sometimes lasts in dozens of different positions, is normal. But the research of sexologists should calm them down: the average sexual act, excluding privy, lasts only 2,5 minutes. Moreover, a wider interval, i.e. 1,5 to 5 minutes, is considered the norm. In general, the norm here is a relative concept. If it's good for you and your partner, do you need to think about some kind of norm? And believe me, most girls will not be happy at all if an intimate meeting lasts too long, because in this case the partner will not get pleasure, but fatigue and unpleasant sensations.
