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Sometimes, but more rarely, the opinion is heard that reading and writing before school is not necessary and even harmful. And now imagine that you went to work in a huge building, where giants are running and shouting, where you have to do incomprehensible work, and the questions are terrible. And you are only 7 years old. What kind of mentality do you have to have in order to learn something in this stress.
It is most difficult for boys. The school distorts the natural process of formation of the male body, which needs to move and fight.
What do you need to be able to do at school so that 11 years is not too difficult, especially if it is a digital school that is talked about so often Olga Vasilyeva in their performances?
• Write 5-8 lines and solve several examples of arithmetic operations independently. That is, without mother's control.
• Carefully cut with scissors and carefully draw.
• Read without dividing the word into syllables.
• Understand that there are foreign languages.
Do not think that they will teach you at school. At first, children master only one skill: sitting in a fixed position. No one teaches you to do your homework. But the children will stay at home alone. They were not taught to do something without control.
The first complaints of teachers to mothers of boys: "Not stupid, but behavior! But handwriting!". How do they demand handwriting, if the desk and notebook were kicked out of the school in an oblique ruler? What kind of behavior if the boy can't sit down. Physically he can't! Nature demands that the boy develop muscles. And he is given only ten minutes of the break to test his strength and establish the hierarchy.
Therefore, the boy should be prepared for school from the first steps and words. Gradually, starting from a few minutes, learn sitting exercises. Learns to draw and read. A lot of sculpting - plasticine makes the fingers stronger. From the age of 5-6, learn spelling.
Buy a desk or a table with an inclined tabletop long before school. To write at the desk, first with parents, then gradually, without control or coercion. Exam before school – behind closed doors, independently, write something in the scope of homework.
It is advisable to enroll boys in the sports section of the school. It is unlikely that mothers want their child to be bullied by the inevitable bully in every class.
It is necessary to cut with scissors, because some programs for elementary school include a large number of "projects" and crafts. If a boy quickly manages to cut out different shapes, the teacher will like him and his classmates will respect him.
How to do it if the child "doesn't want". Progress has provided powerful incentives – a phone and a tablet. In forty minutes on the phone (no more - absolutely no), the child will do any lessons.
