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In marriage, not everything is completely smooth. Over time, passion fades, relationships can change. But the main indicator that something went wrong in the marriage is when irritation towards the husband appears. This is a sure sign that you should use these tips if you want to save your ex.
Tip #1: find the cause of irritation
It's hard to stay close to a man who annoys you every day. If you want to save the marriage, you need to find the reason why the same irritation occurs. Perhaps you have unspoken resentments.
In such a situation, it will be enough to openly talk about everything with your husband. It may come as a revelation to you that you too can annoy your significant other. It is not necessary to inflate the conflict - it is worth talking calmly, discussing the problem that has arisen in order to find the reason why you are annoying each other.
Then you should move on to finding a solution. This means finding what needs to be changed in each of you. For example, by making a list of “pros” and “cons”, it will be easier for you to eliminate the shortcomings, emphasizing your strengths to your husband. However, it should be noted that this is a two-way process. In other words, you cannot save your marriage alone. The desire must come from both of you.
Tip #2: Don't change your husband
You once chose each other. You fell in love with each other for something. Remember the qualities that attract you in a wife. Most of the shortcomings that are in the second half and that started to annoy you were there until this moment. You just might not notice them. You should not try to change something alone. Follow the previous advice. After all, in this case, it is possible to get an absolutely opposite effect.
It is much more valuable to learn to push a man, support him, guide him, and not to harbor a grudge and get angry.
Tip #3: Respect
Very often, relationships begin with falling in love, passion, the candy-bouquet period. At this time, it is hardly possible to talk about respect, love, awareness. Life makes its own corrections in marriage, so it is possible that there could be moments that started to get annoying.
You should write an essay about a loved one. Yes, tell us about the positive emotions you had with your husband, starting from the time you met until now. If the text turned out to be long, it will be much easier to find points that should be changed. But with a short text, it is worth thinking about a new beginning of the relationship in order to save the marriage. It is necessary to talk more with each other, spend time with your husband, be interested in the hobbies of your other half. This is how interest, love, and respect will be born.
Tip #4: a surge of emotions
Irritation can also appear due to too calm weekdays. Otherwise, it's just stagnation in the relationship. Feelings no longer bring any joy. Therefore, it is worth shaking up your marriage a little. You need to change your style, hairstyle, make changes to your daily schedule, buy new items. You can do something unexpected that your husband should like. By giving him or her new emotions, you can save the marriage.
Tip #5: Imagine a single life
If none of the above helped, then imagine what your life would be like without a husband. You just don't have to decorate your life alone. If you are not satisfied with this option, then go back to the first point and start building a relationship with your loved one anew. This should help save your marriage.
