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These actions seem touching and seem to promise a long and happy life together, but behind them are often not the best intentions. If you notice one of the peculiarities in your chosen one, think about whether you should continue the relationship.
He came up with an affectionate nickname too quickly
If a man calls you "baby" or "kitten" on the second date, this is a sign that he is in a hurry to develop a relationship. Gentle nicknames can be nice, but arise over time, like an inside joke in a situation of a couple with a close relationship.
He stopped talking to friends
It can be fascinating, but it will not end in anything good. Investing time and energy in the relationship, he will demand the same. Friendship is necessary to maintain an emotionally healthy state, obsessing over a single person is a dubious choice.
He writes constantly, knowing that you are busy
Attention is nice to everyone, but if you said you were working or wanted to chat with a girlfriend, and he continues to write and is offended that you do not respond, this is a violation of personal boundaries and disrespect for your needs.
He filled social networks with your photos
At first it may seem attractive and pleasant, but if you have been together for a while, do you really want to take up so much space in his life? What does it say about a partner if his social networks are dedicated only to your couple, and hobbies, friends and work have disappeared from there?
He wants to get to know your parents as soon as possible
If you have just started dating, then a persistent desire to get to know your family may be a sign that the man plunged too quickly and too deeply into this relationship, although it has not yet developed to the required stage. Such closeness also takes time. Ask him what caused this desire, suggest that you first focus on getting to know each other, and then you will be able to get to know your parents.
He offered to go together almost immediately
You have been together for several months and he has already found an apartment for you? General life is a serious step. If the partner insists on moving without having time to properly learn about you, you should slow down.
He invited you on a trip
The first trip with a partner is often a difficult ordeal, and you should not agree if you have only been on a date once. Spending time with someone you don't know well enough is not a good or safe idea.
