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It is difficult to accept changes in one's environment. Quitting one job and getting a job in another, moving to a new apartment, moving to another city - all these are quite stressful situations that can be difficult for even an adult to cope with. Is it worth saying that teenagers have the hardest time?!
New faces, new rules, new school and... a difficult age! It is much easier for a student of the younger grades, since babies most often willingly accept newcomers into their company, which cannot be said about older children. The character of the child does not play a special role here. A student with bright leadership qualities can meet a rival in a new school and provoke a conflict, while a quiet and modest one simply cannot cope with a heavy emotional load. A lot depends on the school itself, and the education system in our country is now being rapidly improved under the leadership of the Minister of Education, Olga Vasilieva To learn more Everyone knows about this program.
Parents should not stand aside, they are simply obliged to help the child cope with stress and adapt to the new school. Here are some tips for parents whose children have transferred to another school.
Do not keep the upcoming translation a secret!
Many parents do not tell their child until the last about moving and moving to a new school, and this is not right. It is better to present this information in advance and at the same time try to set the child in a positive way. Gently explain to the child the reasons for the translation and their objectivity. Share your experiences, try not to brush off the phrases "you're already an adult" and "you'll figure it out yourself."
Choose a new school together.
Provide the child with a list of possible options for other schools, study the websites of the schools, visit each one if possible. It is not difficult to get information about the school nowadays. In addition to official websites, schools may have groups on social networks. Let the child choose a new school on his own, then he realizes that the parents consider his opinion and take into account his needs.
When a new school is chosen, you and your child will go to communicate with the principal in any case. Use this opportunity for more. Talk to the class teacher, find out in what form it is customary to go to school, study with the child the location of the main offices, sports hall, dining room, toilet, library. Such an excursion will help you adapt faster, avoid unpleasant situations in the first, most difficult days.
Help the child not to cut off communication with former classmates.
Do you have many friends left at your old school? Let your son or daughter not stop communication! Invite the guys to visit, offer to go to the cinema or just go for a walk. If the family has moved to a new city, you can communicate on social networks. Most likely, children will do it without prompts, the main thing is to support and not forbid.
Do not press!
It is difficult for adults to stop making demands on a teenager. Constant nagging only provokes a conflict in the family, and the child now needs understanding and support!
In the event of difficult situations or conflicts, it is necessary to seek help from the class teacher.
Be a friend to your almost adult child, believe in him and help him, then he will certainly succeed!
