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As you know, men are sensitive and tender creatures, so you need to be constantly on the alert with them, because any wrong, ill-advised, or thoughtless remark can throw them off track for a long time. Especially if such a phrase is uttered before bedtime.
If you don't want to traumatize your man's psyche, never discuss these topics before going to bed.
We need to talk.
This phrase already sounds scary, after it the man loses all desire not only to talk, but even to lie in bed with his eyes open. He wants to fall asleep right away and wake up when everything is fine. If you want to say something really important, postpone the conversation until the morning, even folk wisdom stands up for the interests of the man, claiming that the morning is wiser than the evening.
Need to buy…
Given that you have the whole night ahead, there is a chance that your man will simply forget what you asked him to do. And, most likely, he will also be half-hearted in listening to you at night. Agree, all important matters, requests and suggestions can be postponed until the morning, and so that you do not forget about it, set a reminder on your phone.
Your/my mother is going to come.
The topic of relatives is not always pleasant. Especially when you want to tell your beloved that your mother wants to come to visit for an indefinite period or his mother did something so bad that you simply need to convey to your husband your entire attitude towards her. Is there really no more pleasant topic than relatives before going to bed? To sleep soundly and healthily, it is better to talk and think about pleasant things - both for you and your soulmate.
We don't have enough money again for...
The money topic only worked if you suddenly decided to tell your loved one that you received a huge inheritance. But then you can not go to bed at all, and it's time to start celebrating right away. You should not discuss that there are only a few pennies left until your salary, do not pay anything on the loan, hint that someone could earn more. Discussion of unpleasant topics does not help to relax before going to bed, but, on the contrary, stresses you out and takes you out of your mental balance, so it is better to postpone them for a more appropriate time.
The children were completely out of control.
Of course, parental duties are performed 24 hours a day, without breaks or weekends. However, if you have already gone to bed, is it worth devoting precious time before bedtime to the same problems that can be discussed at any other time. Probably not, because the children are in their own room, which means that adults can do something more useful.
You didn't do everything the way I wanted.
Trying to sort things out before bed is a very bad idea. First, you won't get anything resolved anyway, and second, either one or both of you will have a bad night's sleep, and you won't be up for work tomorrow.
But my ex...
The worst thing you can say to someone in bed is to mention your ex. It will definitely hurt your partner's self-esteem and give them a bad night's sleep.
