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“I am everything to him, and he treats me very coldly” - this is how women often complain about their men. The imbalance in the relationship begins when a woman begins to deserve love. She tries to make such an impression on a man that he will understand for sure that it is she who will make him happy. And no matter how much he resists, a woman is capable of great feats, because her love is enough to endure everything and prove to her man that she is worthy of his attention. Unfortunately, such a heroic formulation of the question only worsens the situation in the couple.
We offer 5 female feats that a man will never appreciate. And he will definitely say reproachfully: “I didn’t ask you to do this.”
Renunciation of one's interests
You stopped going to the book club, you stopped knitting, you stopped watching black and white movies to please your husband. It seems to you that now, when you watch football and play computer games, your intimacy with your partner is at its maximum. But this is not so, people are drawn to those who can discover something new for them, and blind repetition of tastes seems childish and pathetic, inducing boredom.
Renunciation of one's own opinion
A man started a relationship with you, knowing about your views on life, and if for the sake of a warm and long-term union you give up your opinion in order not to argue with your beloved, always supporting him, you yourself are destroying the relationship. With a woman who always agrees, always gives in, it is simply terribly boring and uninteresting. Even if a man loves her very much, he will start looking for someone else, because the lack of his own opinion and predictability have never been a solid foundation for a relationship.
Abandoning your friends
Communicating with friends is not only a pleasant pastime, but also development. A person is a social being, and by refusing to communicate with other people, you limit yourself and your movement. Especially fixation on one person scares men. You do this to devote all your love and time to your partner, and he is haunted by the feeling that he is being entangled and suppressed by attention. This not only reduces your value in the eyes of a man, but also devalues you as a partner.
Exhausting work on yourself
Often women with low self-esteem begin to actively lose weight, go to the gym, and pay beauticians in order to win over a certain man. Remember: someone who didn't love you when you weren't like a model won't love you after the transformation. Love is not related to your appearance and breast size. You need to change and work on yourself only for yourself, not to win over someone. Otherwise, you will be in for a huge disappointment and frustration.
Dedicate yourself to home
If you initially had no desire to devote yourself to housekeeping, then the biggest sacrifice is giving up work and career for the sake of life and comfort. Staying within four walls and devoting all your time to cooking and cleaning, you lose a huge number of qualities and skills. Yes, your home is warm and clean, but is it worth giving up your ambitions and goals? A man started a relationship with a purposeful, enthusiastic woman, and now he has a cook and a housekeeper in one person by his side. You wouldn't want to marry a confident businessman and then live with a plumber, would you? Especially what will happen to you if the relationship ends, and your higher education diploma has long been covered with age-old dust, and all your money-making skills have long been lost?
When sacrificing something, you should always think first about your safety and security, not about the benefits for another person.
