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He gave her flowers, took her to restaurants, and told her about his very successful business. And a month later, it turned out that he was just a lowly clerk at a bank and lived with his mother in a one-room apartment on the outskirts of the city.
This is not the beginning of a comedy about a failed relationship, such a scenario can quite happen in life, because men like to throw dust in their eyes no less than women. We figured out women's ways to recognize a classic "liar" at an early stage of dating.
The tie is nice, but it doesn't call home to you.
He is always dressed like a pin and makes appointments in posh places, but invariably dodges the question of going to visit him. And he lives, according to his own stories, somewhere in the center in a huge apartment, almost next to someone from the government.
The reasons for the refusal are as pompous as the cafes he frequents: the maid has a terrible flu, a large-scale renovation is never finished, a multi-part film is being filmed in his luxury home. All of this, of course, could be true. But most likely, the guy is just lying to you and you need to take a train with three transfers to get to his real place of residence.
This is only for the duration of the repair.
Another option: he still calls to his place, but admits that he is renting an apartment because his own is being renovated and he needs somewhere to live. And he decided to live in a cool apartment in the very center, because he is not used to saving on anything.
Everything new and beautiful — for special occasions
He dresses up for every date as if he's going to the Oscars. But then you decide to spend time in the park - to have something like a picnic. And what does he come in wearing? In worn-out jeans and an almost torn T-shirt.
"The crisis is in the minds"
If the conversation suddenly turns to the economy (this can also happen on a date), a lying man will try to distance himself from the problems in any way he can. His signature phrase will be something like the words that “the crisis is in people’s heads,” and real men always achieve everything. Then he will tell a story about his successful life, about how he is doing well compared to others who are generally stupid and losers.
But come on, these are normal prices!
So you come to a cafe or a whole restaurant, where the prices are for some reason much higher than the average in similar establishments. But the guy is not at all embarrassed by this, at least he doesn't show it. At the same time, he orders something the most expensive, but not much.
Puts the phone on the table and keeps touching it
Although talking on your phone during a date is considered bad manners, a real liar doesn't see anything wrong with it. Especially if the phone is the latest iPhone model. Having settled down opposite the girl, the pretender will definitely put the gadget on the table, "apple" up, and will periodically feel it and look at the display, as if waiting for an important message.
There is a car, but no housing.
He drives an expensive car, the cost of which is equal to the value of the real estate, and claims that he did not buy it on credit. However, he does not have his own housing. When asked why he lives in rented apartments, he answers something like "I don't want to get tied down to one place" or "I haven't decided where I want to live yet."
He seemed handsome until he opened his mouth.
The most valuable thing in communication between two people, especially when it comes to dating, is a full-fledged dialogue. But not a one-actor theater. In the case of a classic liar, the girl will most likely have to endure a long, sometimes boring and pathetic monologue, where the most frequently used word will be the pronoun "I."
If men like to pretend to be wealthy to impress, the task of girls who play the same game is different - to show complete indifference to financial benefits.
