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Being honest in a relationship is not an easy task, but cheating on your partner is even harder. There is that same female intuition that cannot be fooled. Men are most often pricked by banal phrases overheard in Hollywood movies. We have compiled a list of expressions that signal that a man no longer loves you and will definitely not take you to the wedding. If you feel that there is a coldness between you, listen to your partner. Men like to encrypt ambiguous concepts into words and expressions. And they do it with seemingly good intentions - not to offend the girl. And in the end, everything leads to unnecessary hopes, and ultimately - to disappointment.
There will definitely be no happy ending if your husband says these phrases to you
"Darling, you are too/too beautiful for me"
Imagine that you like a Mercedes. And now you have a chance to get this luxurious car for life. But you have to fulfill one condition: to love it and treat it with care. Will you refuse? Hardly. What man would refuse a girl if he really likes her, just because he considers himself unworthy of happiness and pleasure to be with her? That's right, none. If they say that you are too smart and beautiful, you know, this is such a "gentlemanly" way of refusing.
"Understand, it's not about you, it's about me"
Another typical lie. For some reason, after hearing it, a woman becomes even more attached to her man. Remember: this is bravado, behind which is hidden a desire to end the relationship. Perhaps the man says this phrase with the best of intentions. It seems to him that in this way he protects the woman's psyche. Any breakup is always a test. During the breakup, you need to try to be frank with each other.
"I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now"
If this is true, then you should not expect anything to change over the years. It is unlikely that he will change his mind and become ready for a serious relationship in the near future. Believe me, when a man is in love, he will be afraid of losing you and will easily say goodbye to the bachelor life for your sake.
"I have a lot of work to do. I am very busy."
He may be a workaholic. Again, no matter how busy a man is, he will always find time for his beloved woman. There are even cases when business men fly to visit their girlfriend for the weekend. This is not fantasy. This is the norm. If you are loved, the impossible will always become possible.
"I still have feelings for my ex-girlfriend"
This ambiguous phrase is rarely used by men. The stronger sex usually burns all bridges. The ghost of an ex-girlfriend should not appear where there is room for a serious relationship.
"You know, I really didn't know how to find you, and I lost your phone."
Comments are superfluous here. A phrase that claims a completely different meaning than its content. “You are not that interesting to me, and therefore I did not intend to search for you. All that can happen between us is meetings when I myself feel like it.” There is no other meaning here!
"I am not worthy of you"
This phrase completes the hit parade of ambiguous male phrases. Everything is simple here: “I didn’t initially plan on creating a serious relationship with you.” The easiest and simplest way to break up with a girl.
Of course, these phrases are read differently: "We need to break up." After your escape from your loved one, a new happy streak in your relationship may begin. A short separation is the best test of feelings. And experts also warn that it is dangerous to live in fantasies and unfulfilled dreams in a relationship. Live in the present. If you really feel bad about your partner, then only then should you look for the reason. Don't invent anything where everything is simple. We very often look for difficulties where everything is actually easy and clear.
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Being honest in a relationship is not an easy task, but cheating on your partner is even harder. There is that same female intuition that cannot be fooled. Men are most often pricked by banal phrases overheard in Hollywood movies. We have compiled a list of expressions that signal that a man no longer loves you and will definitely not take you to the wedding. If you feel that there is a coldness between you, listen to your partner. Men like to encrypt ambiguous concepts into words and expressions. And they do it with seemingly good intentions - not to offend the girl. And in the end, everything leads to unnecessary hopes, and ultimately - to disappointment.
There will definitely be no happy ending if your husband says these phrases to you
"Darling, you are too/too beautiful for me"
Imagine that you like a Mercedes. And now you have a chance to get this luxurious car for life. But you have to fulfill one condition: to love it and treat it with care. Will you refuse? Hardly. What man would refuse a girl if he really likes her, just because he considers himself unworthy of happiness and pleasure to be with her? That's right, none. If they say that you are too smart and beautiful, you know, this is such a "gentlemanly" way of refusing.
"Understand, it's not about you, it's about me"
Another typical lie. For some reason, after hearing it, a woman becomes even more attached to her man. Remember: this is bravado, behind which is hidden a desire to end the relationship. Perhaps the man says this phrase with the best of intentions. It seems to him that in this way he protects the woman's psyche. Any breakup is always a test. During the breakup, you need to try to be frank with each other.
"I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now"
If this is true, then you should not expect anything to change over the years. It is unlikely that he will change his mind and become ready for a serious relationship in the near future. Believe me, when a man is in love, he will be afraid of losing you and will easily say goodbye to the bachelor life for your sake.
"I have a lot of work to do. I am very busy."
He may be a workaholic. Again, no matter how busy a man is, he will always find time for his beloved woman. There are even cases when business men fly to visit their girlfriend for the weekend. This is not fantasy. This is the norm. If you are loved, the impossible will always become possible.
"I still have feelings for my ex-girlfriend"
This ambiguous phrase is rarely used by men. The stronger sex usually burns all bridges. The ghost of an ex-girlfriend should not appear where there is room for a serious relationship.
"You know, I really didn't know how to find you, and I lost your phone."
Comments are superfluous here. A phrase that claims a completely different meaning than its content. “You are not that interesting to me, and therefore I did not intend to search for you. All that can happen between us is meetings when I myself feel like it.” There is no other meaning here!
"I am not worthy of you"
This phrase completes the hit parade of ambiguous male phrases. Everything is simple here: “I didn’t initially plan on creating a serious relationship with you.” The easiest and simplest way to break up with a girl.
Of course, these phrases are read differently: "We need to break up." After your escape from your loved one, a new happy streak in your relationship may begin. A short separation is the best test of feelings. And experts also warn that it is dangerous to live in fantasies and unfulfilled dreams in a relationship. Live in the present. If you really feel bad about your partner, then only then should you look for the reason. Don't invent anything where everything is simple. We very often look for difficulties where everything is actually easy and clear.