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The sun shines equally on everyone.
People don't always think that everything is going well for them. Sometimes it seems that luck is not on their side. And subjective opinion is one thing, and the real picture is another, informs Ukr.Media.
It turns out that some people are more fortunate, others are not. I want to know the reason and this question often arises. People simply have different attitudes towards everything in this world. Our perception is also partly a guarantee of success and a happy life.
Lucky people: a gift from above or a life position
There are many people among us who are successful in life. They achieve a lot at work and in their personal lives. They seem to take everything most valuable from life. They are not afraid of any obstacles and are always at their best. But this can be said about what everyone sees. No one knows the real picture and the price of success.
Successful people seem to be accompanied by a green light. They are more likely to be endowed with certain qualities and abilities. But this is not the main merit. You can have an extraordinary talent, but not be able to apply it. And as they say, creations will remain only in the collection of the talent itself.
How many talented artists, scientists, and musicians have remained unrecognized? As the saying goes, "bury talent in the ground." To bring it up and organize it properly, you need to have a certain worldview and energy.
Such people usually:
- True to their dream - they don't live in the ordinary, they always have a dream that lights their way. Thanks to it, they overcome obstacles and develop every day.
- They differ in their perception - they perceive everything that happens around them through the prism of joy. It has always been like this, in childhood, adulthood. They were taught that losing is just a stepping stone to gaining something more.
And even if it doesn't work out, it's no reason to be upset. It's entirely possible to reveal your talent and find success in a different path. They try and aren't afraid to discover new facets of their success and achievements.
Belief in themselves and confidence in the future drive them towards successful achievements every day. This is how people achieve a lot.
Loser syndrome: how to overcome it
People often ask themselves: Am I really a failure? Everyone has these doubts from time to time. But it's all just a matter of perception.
Many people are familiar with the situation of a bad day: they overslept at work, the lock got stuck, the taxi was not on time. And then they had to blush at the meeting because of their shortcomings. Then they spilled coffee on themselves, ruined the papers…
For some, this list can continue until the evening. And it seems that everything is against the person. But some will behave quite naturally. And others will give in to panic already at the third level of adversity. And they will set themselves up that nothing will work out today. And it doesn’t work out. Tomorrow will be a miss.
And again the fall. And the person stops trying. As if he puts a mark on his life. And others may simply not notice that the taxi did not arrive on time, and these are circumstances, they will write off the spilled coffee as irony. And they will even laugh at themselves.
This position of perception was also noted by the American thinker, philosopher, and poet Carlos Castaneda:
"It turns out that everything depends on our vision and attitude. And luck and the sun shine equally on everyone - you just have to be able to see them, right?!"
