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Cold evenings and a lonely bed, meetings with friends, household chores, but still something is missing. Why there is no desire to return home, there is only one answer - loneliness. What to do when such a period comes in life when relationships are very necessary, loneliness suffocates and makes you cry into your pillow at night?
Loneliness is scary and helps you create, but even those people who prefer solitude need warmth, affection, and care, but are not always ready to admit it openly.
What do relationships give a person?
Warmth of the soul, happiness, desire and passion, support, family (if the couple strives to create a community center).
But there are times when it's impossible to build a relationship, and loneliness is suffocating and impossible to hide from. So what to do when you want a relationship?
Main mistakes
Many people make several major mistakes after unsuccessful attempts to build relationships.
Avoiding the problem
The belief that relationships are not the most important attribute of happiness.
Work
To go headlong into work, burdening yourself with all possible tasks and responsibilities, to collapse after a hard day, to completely forget about your loneliness and emptiness.
Happiness can be bought
Having despaired and lost hope in mutual feelings or having a decent income, a person does not create relationships, he buys them in order not to be lonely and to prove to everyone that everything can be bought and sold.
So what to do when you no longer want to spend your lonely evenings alone?
It is best to find a pleasant interlocutor, and better yet, more than one, this will be the very first step on the path to self-discovery and the blossoming of the soul. You should not look for an interlocutor among friends, there are many dating sites and applications that bring together different people and allow you to make acquaintances.
The first step has been taken, then it is worth revealing and solving to each other who pursues what goals. Interests, compatibility, understanding and mutual sympathy should accompany people who, like pieces of a puzzle, were looking for each other. Of course, you should not rush and forget that not all people are honest and there are scammers.
But not everyone is able to meet online, some do not consider it a real chance for a relationship at all. There are many events and various organizations that organize “Blind Dates” for single people, so that people can first get to know each other, communicate on a spiritual and intellectual level, before evaluating external data.
And the most important thing that cannot be missed is that it is worth looking around, maybe there is a lonely person nearby who is also in search of happiness and is tired of being alone. Most often, people simply do not notice each other. A neighbor in the stairwell, a girl from the next entrance, but it happens that an old acquaintance (acquaintance) who has been secretly dreaming of being close for a very long time.
Visnovok
There is no one right and correct solution to loneliness, despite the many tips on how to start a relationship, they do not give 100% results, only in rare cases. You just have to want to, start with yourself, and be open to new rays of happiness.
