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Every woman sooner or later asks herself the question: “Does he love me or is he just having a good time?” After all, you want to find the one and only, and live happily with him until old age! But how do you know if he has real feelings?
Psychologists advise you to trust your feelings first and foremost, but just in case, periodically check the list of points by which you can determine true love.
He talks about the future.
Not all men are capable of making plans at all and often have no idea what will happen to them tomorrow, let alone in a year. But if your chosen one dreams about the future, says what you will be doing in a month, in the New Year and in five years, it means that he takes you seriously and is not going to break up.
He loves unconditionally.
Of course, it's nice when a man cares about what you're wearing or whether you've had a new haircut. But a man who truly loves you will accept a woman in any form, regardless of whether she's gained weight or has her eyebrows done. He also won't try to remake you or force you to do something you don't want to do.
His feelings are stable.
If a man is a roller coaster in your relationship: one day he loves passionately, and the next he despises and humiliates you, don't think that your feelings are mutual. True love is the strongest and safest bright feeling that gives you security and confidence. You should feel his love and care all the time, not just on holidays or after sex.
He is afraid of losing you.
A small amount of jealousy will not hurt to show a woman how important and significant she is. After all, all men are owners. If you are dear to a man, he will never do anything that will push you away, forgive your shortcomings and character traits, do what you ask, even if you don’t want to. True love is a struggle for your woman: with circumstances, with potential rivals, sometimes even with her own parents.
He is really close to you.
And not only in sex, but in everyday life. He openly talks about what is on his mind, talks about his desires, discusses friends. A man who loves always puts his woman first, she is always not only a lover, but also a close friend. If you feel that he is hiding something, or you understand that he is pretending, do not expect love to the grave.
He cares about you
It is not a problem for him to wash the dishes when you are tired, to vacuum the floor and walk the dog, he runs to the pharmacy without reminders if you are sick, and is always ready to help. He picks you up in a taxi from the nightclub where you went with your friends and advises you to wear a scarf because it is cold outside. No matter what happens, you always feel his support.
He is ready to make sacrifices for you.
You don't need to give him separate tests and exams, just remember a few examples when your loved one had to sacrifice his interests for yours. When he refused to go to a meeting with his school friends to watch a movie with you, or postponed a meeting with his parents because you planned a walk.
So, he compromised to make you happy, instead of doing what was convenient for him. If he is ready to make sacrifices for you, it means that his feelings are strong.
He is always on your side.
Perhaps you were wrong in an argument with your parents or during a conflict at work. A man who loves will never take the side of your opponents. At best, he can give you friendly advice on what to do, but, as they say, even if you decide to go to hell, he will take your hand and take a step into hell with you. A beloved man is an accomplice.
He helps solve your problems
A man who loves you will not only buy you aspirin when you are sick, but also be able to help you if something more serious happens. He will take your problems as his own and do everything he can without being overly dramatic. You will not feel embarrassed when you ask him to pick you up from work or pay for your internet.
He is not stingy.
Perhaps one of the most important markers of true love is the ability to be generous. This does not mean that a man should buy you cars and fur coats, what is important is his desire to do something pleasant for you. And even if he is not a millionaire, but an ordinary manager and his salary is only enough for a few trips to a cheap cafe, if he takes you seriously, he will not count pennies. Generosity with money shows how generous a man is in his feelings.
Now check if you love yourself. These signs indicate the seriousness of your feelings.
If you have real feelings, you do the following:
- you become better;
- ready to forget about friends and habits;
- want to look stunning;
- behave naturally, without tension;
- feel sexual desire;
- do not seek to have secrets;
- do not feel fear of the future;
- constantly laughing and smiling;
- you understand that he is a wonderful person;
- you don't care about other men;
- You feel strong and ready to overcome any difficulties.
