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It is common for people to analyze their lives in terms of what they may lack for happiness. Of course, the most important thing is to learn to value themselves and respect their own interests. A woman no longer has to sit with children and cook borscht if she doesn’t want to. If you want to become rich, you need to follow this dream without belittling its value.
Responsibility for oneself
You won't get far on confidence alone. It's like a beautiful carriage, but without wheels. One of these "wheels" is a sense of responsibility. Previously, parents almost always made decisions for girls - where they would work, who they would marry, and so on. Then the husband made decisions for her. Personal responsibility was not needed.
In the 21st century, this is a very important aspect of happiness, because no one will take a woman by the hand and show her how to achieve her goals. Now it is very important to ask yourself: what do I want, what goals do I need to set? The more carefully a woman thinks through her own path, the fewer regrettable mistakes there will be in her life. This is the path of a happy woman. If a woman does not understand what can make her happy, it will be very difficult for her to succeed.
The ability to understand people
Overly trusting women often come across dishonest and toxic men who deceive and take advantage of them. That is why you need to learn to distinguish good people from bad. You can keep negative people away, but open your soul to good people. If the environment is not toxic, but creative and pleasant, this is another step on the path to happiness.
Of course, no one is immune to mistakes, and that's normal: a woman shouldn't blame herself if her partner suddenly shows himself to be completely unattractive. But she will have to make a choice: is she ready to connect her whole life with such a person?
The ability to present oneself correctly
Previously, again, this was not necessary, because a woman was judged by her parents and her status. Now, any woman can broadcast to others what she represents and what she aspires to. This is her choice, and this choice will have a positive impact on her fate.
It is important to pay attention not only to mood and general energy, but also to appearance. If a woman wants to attract the attention of an important and respectable man, he is unlikely to look at a woman in sneakers, jeans and a T-shirt with a bright print.
This also includes the design of a page on a social network. For example, if a man sees a lot of photos with a child and the status "best mom" on a lady's page, he will definitely not want to get to know her.
The “right” flexibility
Many people mistakenly believe that in the modern world it is impossible to be successful in business and at the same time be a good mother, wife, daughter. You can be successful in work and happy in love at the same time. To do this, you need to be strong, flexible, tough, romantic, unwavering, but simply at different times.
At home with children and a husband, you can be yourself - warm, gentle, kind and gentle. When you come to work, you can turn on your inner boss. This does not mean that in this case a woman will pretend. It is just that a person often has several sides, each of which needs to be shown at the appropriate time. If you come home after a working day and forget to switch from a tough boss to a loving mother and wife, nothing good will come of it. After all, it works the other way around: few women will like it if a successful man, upon returning from work, boils down to a not-so-adequate boss of a not-so-smart subordinate.
The modern world allows women to play the roles they like the most. The main thing is that it is feasible for the fair sex herself.
