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According to psychologists, men are more straightforward than women. That's why men often express their thoughts out loud. However, women don't always interpret what they hear correctly, which is where problems arise.
Remembers the ex in a good and bad way
“You will probably be unpleasant, but my ex also likes this band”, “My dog has never been so happy for my ex-wife”. Many people like the same musical group. The same applies to his dog. What are you here for and why these constant comparisons with your ex? A good question, the answer to which sounds very simple: the man either has not yet come out of a relationship with his ex, or he frankly does not care about your feelings. In both cases, you should think about it.
Talks about his greed or the greed of women
In both cases, it will not bring anything good. Of course, not all men will honestly admit: “I am greedy” - there are much fewer of them. Therefore, you should not think that this is flirting and convince him: “No, dear, you are not like that”. He is like that, and he immediately warns that he will not spend money on gifts, new things, flowers and other pleasant nonsense. And if all this is important to you, it is better not to waste your precious time on him. If a man likes to think about women's greed, then wait for the bill to be paid in half and forget about courtship and gifts.
Often mentions his mother
"My mother...", and then follows a story about what his mother knows how to do, does, and cooks. Of course, a mother is an important part of any man's life, but when she appears a lot in your conversations, especially at the beginning of your acquaintance, it makes you think: maybe fate, the villain, brought you together with your mother's son.
He admits that he can't live without you.
Usually, such confessions follow a divorce, a quarrel, and in general, they are used as reconciliation. He says: “I can’t do without you,” you immediately melt (because you can’t do it either) and run to meet him with open arms. The main thing in this story is that you will now often break up and reconcile, and each time he will not be able to live without you. Such a man constantly needs emotional nourishment, aggravation of passions so that he cannot, and then reconciliation, and everything is fine, but not for long. Feelings become a little dull, and he wants passions again. Such emotional swings are obtained. If you are looking for stability in a relationship, then it is better to choose a man who can do without you, but does not want to, because it is with you that he feels good. He is emotionally more mature and knows what he needs.
Claims that you are the best
Compliments are always nice to hear. But, unfortunately, this very phrase, uttered by your chosen one, does not bode well. “You are the best!” he tells you, and, you must admit, you want to clarify how many women he compares you with. But it is not even that that scares you, but the fact that today you are the best, and tomorrow or the day after tomorrow he will conduct a new comparative analysis, and it will turn out that the best is not you, but some other. Remember that this phrase indicates a temporary nomination.
He worries about you and wants to protect you.
All women, without exception, dream of one thing: for their beloved man to take care of them. And, of course, it is nice to hear from your chosen one that he is worried and worried about you. But it all depends on the situation. If you have tripped up in a flat place, a normal man does not talk about his feelings, but rushes to help you. If a man is simply worried about you and constantly hints that you need to be protected, then this indicates that he is either an anxious person, therefore, he has problems, or is trying to make you weak, that is, to subordinate you to himself. With such a man it is better to be very careful. A normal man does not talk about protection, but simply is there, supports and protects.
