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The concept of a "successful person" is more relevant than ever for residents of large cities: high competition gives rise to the desire to become better, more efficient than your neighbor and at the same time get more than usual. However, people who are on the path to success make the same mistakes over and over again. Today we decided to collect the main points that are not typical of people who are successful in business and personal relationships.
They don't stay in their comfort zone.
Perhaps the biggest fear of each of us is the fear of change. To accept the fact that there may be difficulties on the way, which, most likely, will have to be overcome on your own, terrifies many. It is important to understand that in a place where everything is familiar to you, it is impossible to achieve any success - it is always necessary to open new horizons. And how long ago did you decide to change something in your life?
They are not afraid of justified criticism.
Importantly, it is about intelligent criticism, supported by arguments. If a person is not satisfied with your work without any reason, their opinion should not be considered important for you as a specialist. To gain such a “superpower” in the form of ignoring aggression towards yourself, it is important to work on your own self-esteem, because it is your perception of yourself that determines whether an ill-wisher will be able to undermine your self-confidence. Do not let random people knock you off course.
There are no obstacles for them.
Very often, the reasons for apparent failures are hidden not in the lack of opportunities to implement plans, but in the unwillingness of the person himself to look for ways to solve the problem. Remember that any problem can be solved, the main thing is to find the right approach, which is what successful people use.
Established relationships are important to them.
Of course, conflicts are possible even with those people with whom you have long established trusting relationships, and it would seem that there simply cannot be any misunderstandings. However, even the most serious quarrel with an important person in your life is not a reason to break off these relationships - a successful person always values \u200b\u200bthe established contacts, chasing the quantity of people, not their quality - is definitely not the fate of a person who strives to achieve more.
They are not surprised by failures.
Even the most well-thought-out scheme may not work. And a successful person knows this, and therefore prepares in advance "ways to retreat" or the so-called plan B for an emergency. Take into account: never limit yourself to one option for the development of events, be ready to change something if you have to solve suddenly arising problems. For this, it is important to develop psychological flexibility in yourself, because only in this case you will achieve what you want without serious losses.
