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Do you think your man is made of steel and can handle any whims? Do you often sulk and think it looks cute? It's good if he tries to hide his emotions, but sooner or later, even the most balanced supermen can lose their temper.
Nobody owes you anything.
Just like you. Don't put all your problems and responsibilities on your man. Learn to share: don't put on his shoulders what you can safely handle on your own. Believe me, he has enough worries throughout the day, including planning your joint vacation. Therefore, you shouldn't burden your man with tasks like "Dear, please take Archik to get a manicure. It's right near your office!".
Men love cheerful and cheerful girls, with a sparkle in their eyes, so leave the role of Princess Nesmeyana in childhood.
You are already a grown-up girl, from whom a man expects appropriate behavior. Regardless of whether his husband's football team won, or his opponents from a competing company, or he had a bad conversation with his superiors, he expects a smile and a good mood from you. We are not talking about cases when you also have troubles. Just leave a stony face and an answer of "nothing" to the capricious fifoks when asked what happened.
Speculation is certainly a delicate matter.
It's so subtle that if you overdo it, you can easily lose your loved one. Here you are talking over a glass of red wine, relaxing and for some reason you think that it is very important for him to know about how a nice young man with a brand new A7 tried to get to know you during the day. And what should your husband do with this "very important" information: in a fit of jealousy, find out the license plate number of the ill-fated Audi from you or sit silently and think about how popular you are with him? Don't expect understanding here. If he chose you, he already knows your value.
Jealousy is not a pleasant feeling.
Most often, they have no good reason, and you are just doing your own thing. Don't stick around with questions like "where were you from 5 to 6", "why did you call back only after 20 minutes" or "why are you looking at her so strangely". After all, it is known that if a person wants to cheat, he will do everything in a way that you are unlikely to guess. Therefore, handcuffing him to a battery is a so-so idea. Especially do not proceed to interrogations. Even if you asked a delicate question, in your opinion, be satisfied with the answer received, and draw conclusions, but do not develop the topic. If your husband came at 6 in the morning with traces of foundation on his collar, then think about whether he is needed at all?
"Behave yourself and don't stoop so low!" your mother often says to your moans about unfamiliar numbers in his phone.
What's more: she's certainly right, but honestly, all women, if they don't do it, then they probably try to peek into his email or Facebook out of the corner of their eye. The main rule here is to do it carefully, because they don't like it. It's better not to get caught red-handed and calm your nerves quietly than to be considered a weirdo from whom your man will hide his phone. We don't think you'll be thrilled that he's reading your secret correspondence with your friends.
Yes, we get tired too, but we don't always have time to apply a mask at night or style our hair in the morning.
But it's safe to say that looking well-groomed is your constant duty. It's not that you have to meet your man every night in a robe with pearl buttons and pink high-heeled slippers, just be neat and tidy to please his eyes, so to speak.
Don't control his every action, it's really scary.
Leave the boring remarks like “are you sure that this shirt goes with that tie” or “finish this piece, you’ll be hungry before lunch.” This refers to your constant behavior in a similar style, not isolated cases. Even if his mother lives far away, believe me, she has already raised him as best she can, and it is unlikely that he will want to return to his mother again, especially in your face.
Don't dissolve in it.
Men come and go, but you stay with yourself forever. “Oh, it won’t work out today, I have a corporate party, but I’ll probably bake a pie at home” is not always the right behavior. Well, unless you are the wife of an Arab sheikh or a young mother breastfeeding a child. Don’t turn into a homebody, attend courses, engage in personal development, invest in your future. Only when you are interested in each other can you build a strong union. After all, remember the unpleasant truth: any beauty can get boring. I don’t think you paid attention to a man who was lying on the couch or standing by the stove 24/7. After all, you like that he works, goes to the gym, plays tennis every weekend and is the best at wine? That’s exactly it.
Your frequent excuses are a reason for him to go left.
You chose this man for a reason, so your love desire cannot just disappear. Do your temperaments not match? Well, such an important aspect of life together as intimacy, you should have considered in advance. In general, try to make the only reason for refusing intimacy with your loved one be oversaturation with her.
