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They cause quarrels, break up families and force people who once adored each other to go their separate ways. Women hate them and men think about them from time to time. Today we are talking about mistresses. It is interesting that some women envy their mistresses (if, of course, they do not interfere in their family), usually the object of envy is a girl who manages to start an affair with a wealthy man who gives her expensive gifts. But is it reasonable to envy a woman if she has to constantly control her emotions and invent new stories for friends and family? We do not think so. We will tell you about four reasons that will convince you that the fate of the third in a relationship is not worth envying.
Lost time cannot be regained.
No matter how much a man assures a woman, if the affair lasts for years, the probability that the family will be destroyed in order for the man to be able to build a family with a mistress is very small. Usually, it is enough for a man that he always has a place where he can go away from home if he has disagreements with his wife. But just as easily a man will return home, leaving his mistress to suffer and wait for the next meeting. Can one envy a woman who wastes time on illusions?
Life in supporting roles
A man creates a relationship with another woman when the routine and monotony of life begin to absorb him more and more quickly. A lover in the eyes of a man is a woman with whom he can escape this routine and relax in a way that is impossible with his wife for various reasons. A man does not make serious plans, and therefore his wife and her desires will always be a higher priority. A lover will always agree to help, and not every woman will be satisfied with such a situation.
Permanent neurosis
The main disadvantage of the role of a mistress is that she has no status. Neither her family, nor her husband's friends, nor his colleagues should know about her existence, which means that she will have to hide, avoid joint photos in which she really wants to hug her husband, but she can't. It is important for any woman to understand that she has support, but a married man cannot give it just because he is completely dependent on his family, which means that he cannot rush to help his girlfriend at any moment. When the feeling of insecurity begins to gain momentum, everything can end in a nervous breakdown and a big quarrel, which will lead to parting with the mistress, but the man will not be upset at all - one mistress can easily be replaced by another.
Inability to express feelings
For a man, a mistress is the opposite of a wife, who can complain, whine in moderation, and sometimes stress her husband. Such behavior on the part of a mistress will be quickly stopped by the man. In the end, the mistress is forced to hide all her tender emotions away and try not to irritate the man, who seeks relaxation in the arms of his second woman. If a woman consciously agrees to an “illegal” relationship, she must prepare herself for the fact that she will always be under the influence of her husband’s mood and desires. So, there is nothing to be jealous of here. Isn’t that right?
