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If you don't know wellIt is not easy to understand whether a person can be trusted. Therefore, psychologists advise paying attention to certain character traits and behavior that can tell a lot.
A person is a whole world in which it can be difficult to navigate. Therefore, you should not treat them with prejudice. But it is also dangerous to trust blindly. Especially since the “unreliable” can be identified by certain signs.
Excessive generosity
It would seem that this should be a plus and characterize a person from the best side – unexpectedly significant gifts or an offer to help selflessly. In fact, psychologists believe that excessive generosity can be an insidious plan – a sophisticated way of manipulation. After all, in this way it is very easy to gain control over the interlocutor. He does not realize that, by accepting gifts or help, he falls into dependence – a kind of emotional debt.
Ignoring restrictions
It is dangerous to trust someone who does not respect other people's personal boundaries, interferes in their lives, ignores requirements and rules. They always do what is convenient for them. But if you make a remark to them, try to reprimand them, they can easily turn the situation upside down to make someone else guilty.
Extraordinary kindness
If a person wants to be liked by everyone, it is very noticeable. First of all, he tries to be extremely friendly with everyone. And he works hard to make the best possible impression on others - to become perfection in their eyes. But this false image is easy to destroy. Behind it, there will be an empty person who should not be relied on.
Lack of empathy
Unreliable people do not know how to listen to the interlocutor, never try to put themselves in the shoes of another to understand his emotions, do not show sympathy, minimize other people's pain. They may seem generous, friendly, sociable, but their own interests always come first. Such people will not go to the other side of the city in the middle of the night if a friend is in trouble.
They don't keep their promises.
They talk a lot and do little, and only when they feel like it. Such people do not have solid life values. Relying on them is the same as playing roulette.
