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Psychologists assure that so-called “professional” con artists almost always have a certain algorithm of actions. If you observe at least one of the following signs, then this should be a warning bell for you. In this case, it is best to be especially wary of the person you came to date with. Let's figure out how to recognize a con artist on the first date.
4 signs of an alphonse
First of all, a person tries to force events. In order to achieve the goal faster, it is important for a man to increase the pace of the date, to make it unnaturally fast. If an hour or two after the start of your date or after the first meeting you start receiving declarations of love, then something is definitely wrong.
The second sign is that the Alphonse often shows his own vulnerability, trying to arouse feelings of pity in you, so that you will feel sorry for him. This can be stories about problems in the family or financial troubles, which are often followed by requests for financial help.
The third sign is that a man often avoids talking about his work. He avoids any of your questions about his hobbies, profession, or finances. The thing is that most of the Alphonses do not have a financial cushion, but their task is to convince you otherwise.
The fourth sign is that con men often resort to emotional manipulation. They will alternate compliments on your beauty and intelligence with complaints about life and reproaches. In addition, you may experience constant manipulation on a more serious level if you start a serious relationship with the person. Therefore, you should think twice about whether the man is worth your nerves.
