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For this, you only need to pay attention to what questions he asks on the first date.
"How many partners have you had before me?"
Such questions signal that the man is ill-mannered, unforgiving. But, despite this, it should not be immediately written off. It is quite possible that he is simply looking for a woman who has had no one before him. On the other hand, such a question may mean that he is trying to "reconcile the situation" and find out whether you are easily inclined to quickly move the relationship to a new level.
Many ladies ask how to answer such a question. In this situation, you can joke or tell it like it is. What is important is not your answer, but how the man will build the conversation further. If he takes the information to heart and just continues the conversation, everything is fine. If he begins to develop this topic, then this is a bad sign.
Such a question is often asked by pick-up trucks, for whom it is important to understand how difficult a "prey" you will be and how to communicate with you. So they try to steer the conversation in the direction they want. It's too much for a first date. If the man continues to develop this topic, you should not continue the relationship with him.
Material issues
"Do you rent an apartment or do you have your own?". For a normal man, it shouldn't make any difference where the lady he's dating lives. It is quite possible that the person in front of you is not completely honest, or he is simply uneducated, as in the case of the first question.
"How much do you earn?". This question should not matter to a normal man. It is usually asked by pimps who need to understand what their production can be. If you are significantly older than the man you are dating, be especially careful.
The best answer to such a question, which will help to identify a frivolous and dangerous man, is a joke. Can you say that you have enough for your own needs without going into details.
"Do you like receiving gifts from men?"
If a rich man has asked this question, maybe he wants you to say yes because he needs to shorten the path from courtship to a serious relationship. He scouts the situation, trying to understand if you can buy your love with gifts.
Most likely, he will not pursue any other goal. He needs to know what his chances are of getting what he wants in the shortest possible time.
"Did you go to my place?"
It happens that a spark appears on the first date, because you want to take the relationship to a new level as soon as possible. But if this does not happen, it is better to refuse such offers.
Chemistry, stormy and crazy feelings appear with not all men in the first minutes of communication. If the date did not include kissing and touching, and the man asks you about it, he very likely wants only this from you. Maybe there's a pick-up truck in front of you, for whom it's important to check your name and then run away.
What questions can be considered positive
Psychologists and experts in the field of relationships believe that it is best when a man on a first date asks questions such as: "What is your favorite movie?", "How do you relax?" and so on.
If he asks questions that reveal you as a person, but do not touch on too personal topics, this man is very suitable for the title of your future life partner. One of the main signs that this is your man is ease of communication. If a man asks strange questions on the first date that you don't want to answer, then, most likely, further communication will not work out in the same way.
