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Psychologists note that dating on the Internet leads to a strong marriage. Statistics show that almost half of such acquaintances lead to serious relationships. It's time to find out how to find the man of your dreams on dating sites.
Misconceptions about dating sites
For many women, such sites are associated with loser men and cheaters, as well as those who go there just to pass the time. But it turns out that there are many who are really looking for their love.
Many women give up dating sites only because they were not lucky enough to find love there in the first couple of days. But no one can promise that a reliable and easy partner will meet you right away. If you are serious about finding the man of your dreams, you need to take your time and give yourself time.
What are dating sites?
The first type of resources is the most familiar to the average user. This is a full-fledged site, which is somewhat similar to early versions of social networks, where you can write messages, add photos and videos. There are many sites, so experts strongly recommend registering on several at once, but actively using only one, because it will not be possible to track the activity of all of them at once. You can register for several and wait until men start writing on one of them.
The second type of resource is phone apps. They are very convenient, modern, show the person's location, and are always at your fingertips - in your phone, so that you do not miss a message from the next candidate for the role of your husband. The chances of you talking to a robot will be minimal, which is also very valuable.
No one limits you in anything - you can use any sites and applications. The only question is how much time you will have for all this. Regular sites can bring men from different countries and cities to your page. Apps in this regard will be a little more convenient because they are "smarter", they offer you men who are relatively close to you geographically.
How to increase the chances of success
Of course, the way you prepare your questionnaire is fundamental. Even if you don't have time at all to design the page, you will have to spend some effort.
The main prohibition: no bikini or lingerie photos. Too candid photos with deep cuts, shiny underwear, and a nauseating look will attract completely unnecessary attention to you. If your goal is to find a normal man, and not to waste time on hunters for skirts and light entertainment, then you will have to put an ordinary photo, romantic or with a twist, but not provocative. A man should look at your photo and think that you will bring him happiness. You are more likely to find the man of your dreams with a photo of you just happily posing than with a photo of you showing off your curvaceous curves.
Let the man write first. It's not about what he has to write because he's a man and you're a woman. But you need to be absolutely sure of the interlocutor's interest. According to statistics, mostly men write first, so you won't have to wait long for the "judged".
Do not talk to your husband for a long time. You are not looking for a pen pal, but love, so you should not turn the search for the man of your dreams into a simple communication and long-distance relationship. First, you need to make sure that he lives at an acceptable distance for you, because it is very important that nothing prevents you from seeing each other. Next, it is important to develop communication in the network for no longer than a couple of days. It is necessary to make an appointment. If a man avoids a meeting, you should immediately stop communication.
Do not focus on marriage and family. It only scares men away. A good man may be scared of this tick in your profile, so it is better to tell him about your plans for the future later.
Important advice: in the category about yourself, write about what you like, what you do, what you are passionate about, how you relax. Avoid hackneyed phrases and quotes. Be simpler, and men will definitely be attracted to you.
