
It often happens that after the stage of falling in love, the illusion of the partner's ideality disappears, as does the amount of dopamine in the head, and at the chemical level it helped to ignore the man's shortcomings and turn a blind eye to many things. But do not rush to hide your relationship and give up on your partner, because a smart and wise woman can correct at least 6 shortcomings and bring her union closer to an ideal and harmonious relationship.
Sits on the phone for hours
Often sitting on your phone is nothing more than a bad habit that can be broken just as easily as rocking your chair. The main thing is to understand whether your partner is sitting on his phone on automatic mode or is he still solving his professional issues? If the former, then let him know that this is a really bad habit that needs to be broken. First, try to come up with tasks for him when he is mindlessly scrolling through the feed.
Ignores hygiene
Hygiene is a tradition that is followed with varying regularity in every family. Some are taught to wash every day, while others are taught to wash once a week. You never know, maybe your husband was forced to save water, so break this block of stinginess and teach him to wash as often as possible. Shower or bubble bath — the choice is his!
No ambitions for development
Amorphousness and apathy are always bad. But a wise woman knows how to see strengths and, most importantly, will find the right words to charge her partner with such strong motivation that it will be enough to overcome any financial mountain.
Doesn't make decisions with you
Ignoring common affairs is very overdue. But you have to find the root of the problem, why there is no equality in the relationship. Maybe because you are too domineering, and your partner has withdrawn into himself and is afraid to put forward some uncertain thesis, because you will shout at him? Try to instill equality and a clear division of responsibilities in the house, then everyone will know what he is responsible for.
Pays little attention to raising children
The stereotypical perception that a woman should take care of children is a useless myth. A man should occupy an important balanced place in a child's life. Only then will you be able to raise a person who is not full of complexes and has the right duality of masculine and feminine principles. Keep your husband informed about the child's development so that he will be interested in participating, let them walk together, spend time together, and in the meantime you can go to the spa.
Compares with mom
You need to convey to him that a mother and a wife have completely different roles. If your husband often compares you to his mother, ask him what exactly you are doing wrong and defend your way to free yourself from the shackles of image substitution!
As you can see, a wise woman can easily fix these 6 problems and work for the common good of the partnership. The main thing is to analyze, listen. So your partner will hear you and be able to pay attention to his shortcomings.