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He doesn't mean "just work and not only that." There is no surer way to dig the grave of love than misunderstanding...
There is no universal recipe for how to make a man fall in love with you once and for all. As you might guess, there is no love potion. But there are things that are simply vital for men. Without them, they will never be able to truly fall in love, and if they do, it will be for a very short time.
So, what are these 5 miraculous and magical things without which a man's love is impossible?
Space
Men need personal space, otherwise they literally suffocate. This is especially important in relationships. If you call your lover 10 times a day, bombard him with “smileys” and hearts in messages, constantly ask if he loves you, you are… killing him. Yes, no more, no less.
For men, such "hyperlove," no matter how sincere and kind your intentions may be, turns into a prison. It's as if he's been placed in a "love cell" with no right to early release.
Remember: men value freedom more than anything else in the world, and if they feel like they're suffocating in a relationship, they'll quickly pick up the key to the locked door and just run away. It's useless to explain something and shout after them. They won't hear.
Tenderness
After all, it’s logical and natural, isn’t it? After all, it’s not for nothing that women are considered a symbol of tenderness and affection. No matter how old a man is, he craves attention, just like a 3-year-old boy. Not because he is weak and needs maternal care. On the contrary, he is strong and courageous, will always protect and defeat everyone. But when he returns tired from the “war of life,” he seeks silence and peace. Tenderness and a kind word.
It is also important for him to see that you are not ashamed to show your feelings, do not hide your tenderness behind feigned rudeness and jokes. Many women are afraid to show their tenderness, so as not to be considered weak and helpless. In fact, these are the qualities that attract men in women. They fall in love when they see that someone needs their protection.
Respect
Even if men never admit it (often even to themselves), it is extremely important for them that the woman they love respects them. Not pretending or showing "respect," but genuinely admiring and proud of them.
Career, friends, hobbies, gatherings over a glass of beer - all of this is important to a man and is part of his life, but your respect is something that means much more than everything else put together.
Only when a man is respected by his beloved woman will he feel calm and safe. Otherwise, he will run away from you, first to his friends and to work, and soon he may leave altogether.
Understanding
This is a problem that many men face in life: women simply do not understand them. Even if they love and respect them, even if they sincerely strive for it - they do not understand, and that's it. They do not understand the needs of men: social, business or sexual.
Typically, such relationships are doomed to failure, because the woman will constantly accuse her partner of having “only work” or “only this” on his mind. There is no surer way to dig a grave for love than misunderstanding.
Believe me, if a man feels that there is a woman next to him who understands him, he will never take it for granted. Such women are appreciated, they fall in love with them, and they never leave them.
Feeling of significance
If a man knows that he is not just a “wallet” or an “acceptable option” in a woman’s life, then he will do everything to make her happy. Possible and impossible. It is important for him to feel significant in her life, the most expensive, the most desirable.
Yes, there are exceptions to this rule - self-sufficient men who are "happy on their own." But for most men, it is very important to know that in the evening they can come home and be met by their beloved - gentle, attentive, kind. The best on Earth!