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Every day, the world is replenished with various personal growth trainers, coaches and pseudo-psychologists. We will tell you about the most strange and stupid phrases that you can hear from these people.
These phrases are general. Real experts advise not to adopt them and not to follow the advice contained in them. In most cases, such phrases confuse people instead of giving them answers to touching questions.
Love yourself so that your loved ones will love you
This is one of the most impossibly stupid phrases that various trainers like to repeat. It is physically impossible to love yourself, because love requires the presence of two people. Perhaps what is meant by these words is "accept yourself." This is already something more true and interesting.
Accepting your fears and negative emotions, for example, helps you start to deal with them. By accepting ourselves as we are, the struggle for a better version of our personality begins. These words can also be used to replace "living in accordance with your desires." People need to remember their desires at all times.
You need to be yourself
It is not at all clear what the "experts" want from us. Maybe it's about not pretending when you don't have to. This phrase makes absolutely no sense, because we are always changing.
Today I am a person who wants a lot of money, and tomorrow I dream of having a proper rest and a change of scenery. If the first phrase can be explained, then this one cannot be understood at all.
Listen to yourself
The point here is to follow your intuition. Remember how many times your heart has helped you solve a problem and helped you make the right choice in the face of a dilemma. About half the time, right? All because, by listening to your heart, you are handing over your life to chance, in which there are only two outcomes - positive and negative.
It is important that logic prevails over emotions. That is why it is necessary to make decisions based on one's own experience. The heart always makes us make very strange choices. It is the heart that makes girls choose tyrant husbands and then stay with them when they beat them.
Dream to achieve your goal
Dreaming is good, but only in order to find motivation for work. There is no direct connection between the goal and the dream. This phrase is rarely explained to people, so they think that they just need to dream more often and everything will be fine.
No, it is important to do something so that there is a result. Start your journey to your dream with some conscious actions that will shorten the distance between you and your dream. As for empty thoughts and dreams of a better future, this is simply an opportunity to find a reason to start a new working day.
A woman is a source of inspiration for her husband
With this phrase, many psychologists try to hint that the husband or companion of any woman does everything for her. If it weren't for her, he would have remained a part-time plumber.
Coaches all over the world recommend that ladies become this source of inspiration for their husbands, but for some reason they can't quite explain how to do it. You might think that the man has no other sources of inspiration. Even more ridiculous is the situation when ladies who "know" psychology tell their friends that they do not inspire their husbands well, so he earns little and works as a security guard.
He who was a writer will remain one. The one who was a bodyguard will remain one too. Here, at least inspire, even not inspire, and the result will be the same.
All for the better
The husband left, leaving with three children - everything will be fine soon, wait a little. Fired from work - no big deal. This means that things will be much better in the near future.
Of course, this is not so. If some problems lead to the fact that you find something better, then your failures or troubles gave you a shock, and that's all. Negative life moments just make you get up from the couch and take matters into your own hands.
If the psychologist tells you that everything will be fine soon, because behind the black line there is a white one, then you need to turn around and leave as quickly as possible. If you do nothing, the black bar will remain black.
