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There are no ideal people in nature - neither women nor men. Therefore, even if both are in love, there are still small details that may not suit either of them, and it is better to know about them in order to find a common language and not risk the relationship. So, what should not be done in order not to annoy your loved one.
Tell him in detail about your exes
A man will not like it if you compare yourself to someone, in the same way that you imagine your beloved in the arms of another woman.
To believe that the main thing in intimacy is to lie down in bed
The pose of a starfish is far from inspiring a man. Be active and do not hide your true desires, and from yourself as well. And to you. This will only benefit your partner.
Make plans together after your "first time"
Love and a first date are far from always the same thing, not to mention joint plans for life. If everything works out, then consider yourself very lucky, and if not, then you will only scare him with such conversations.
Intentionally provoke him to jealousy
Women, by the way, are also far from delighted with this feeling. However, if we, feeling jealous, try to do everything to regain his attention, then the man will most likely suffer, get angry... or even just leave.
When you come to the restaurant, order "only a salad"
Well, of course, you are absolutely right that you are watching your figure, and besides, you are doing it for his sake too! However, he was so happy to invite you and wanted to share the pleasure with you.. In other words, it is better to discuss your diet with a nutritionist, and to spend time with your loved one in a completely different way.
Violating "his territory"
Yes, it can be difficult to understand: all his things are piled up, and he is firmly convinced that this is what the perfect order looks like, as if otherwise he would not find anything! It is clear that when his desperate cry, "Where's my blue shirt?!" — you mostly have to search. However, if it is about his work or hobbies, then it is really better not to interfere.
Spend hours in the bathroom
Firstly, it is much more pleasant to tidy up calmly when no one is in a hurry. Secondly, it is really difficult for him to understand what you are doing there for so long: after all, five minutes will be enough for him to gather himself.
To speak in hints
A man will definitely not understand that he is simply obliged to do something that you did not ask him to do. You should not hope that he will start reading your thoughts, even if he is very much in love. Therefore, speak directly if you want to get results and avoid insults in an empty place.
Demand heart-to-heart conversations
Happiness is when you are understood. However, if a woman can talk about her experiences easily and with pleasure, then such a talent is very rare in a man. Do not be offended: boys are brought up this way from childhood, and it will not be possible to change the situation quickly. Be tactful and patient: little by little he will learn to trust you more.
Constantly criticize everyone
It just catches your eye: how terribly this friend is dressed! However, do not expect that he will share your emotions and willingly support the conversation. Not at all because he has no eyes or a mind of his own. He just thinks that your own life should be more important to you. And here, most likely, he is not so wrong.
To perceive with displeasure his friends
Here, direct criticism is simply doomed to failure. Let it be obvious to you that they influence him in an inappropriate way, there is nothing you can do about it: this is the same "holy male friendship".
Take him shopping
Yes, it would be so cute if the two of you could go shopping all day! However, if it is not a pleasure for him, but the time spent on a long wait in the fitting room, it is better to go shopping with his girlfriend. After all, you yourself will perfectly decide what is better to spend money on.
Oppress him with your right
This grandiose moment, when you really want to exclaim: "You see, I told you so!" Just don't do it. He is embarrassed anyway, and if the trouble is big, then he generally wants to sink underground.
Demand a report from him
No matter what strong feelings (or even marriage) bind you, it is still important for him to feel like an independent and proud man! Therefore, it is better to do without reproaches. However, if "leaving in five minutes" turns into "disappeared for three hours to an unknown destination", you have the right to frankly say that you would have worried much less if he had communicated his plans and route in advance. It will be much easier for him to understand such logic.
To believe that "they are all the same"
This terrible phrase can destroy any potentially happy marriage. No matter who we are talking about, she is guaranteed to bring out both men and women - at least, there are definitely no differences between us in this!
