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Do you want to say that you have never lied? And remember how in school you made up a believable lie about why you didn't do your homework. And how in your student years you told your boyfriend that you could not continue your relationship because you were not suitable for each other, and the whole thing was that he was shorter than you, but you did not want to offend him by the fact that this there is a reason to divorce. You will agree that it was a lie for good. In the first case - for you, in the second case - for another person.
It turns out that sometimes there are situations when it is better to lie than to tell the truth. And you will be fine, and others will not be harmed. For convenience and emotional comfort, we will replace the word "lie" with "tell the truth." That sounds better.
Now let's discuss those situations when it is better not to tell the truth.
When the boss asks, "Why are you late for work?"
A possible answer in this situation is: "Sorry! The neighbor became ill. I had to call an ambulance and wait for it to arrive." In fact, you couldn't bring yourself to get out of bed earlier. The pillow was already very soft, and the blanket was warm. But as a result, you won't be fired because of a little lie that didn't hurt anyone. But everything is good in moderation. You can't call an ambulance for your neighbor every other day.
In summary
There are such psychologists in schools who send them for a consultation with a psychiatrist whenever parents contact them. And in the resume (in school it is an autobiography) there are almost three pages of information about the trainings attended, the seminars attended, the methods used, etc., etc. If people's lives do not depend on your level of professionalism, why not decorate it.
When you are asked to borrow money
Money is a frequent cause of quarrels. Therefore, if it is not vitally necessary, it is better not to borrow money, especially large amounts. Better not to lose friends. It is easier to make money than to make friends.
To the question of the owners of the house, whether you enjoyed your stay (or at a wedding or some other event)
Of course, I liked it. After all, they tried for you. It cannot be otherwise. Of course, you can be dissatisfied with something, but not everything. And you don't want to offend others. It was a holiday for them, and you want to leave a nasty residue.
In response to his question, how long did you have before him
That's right, in case of fire. Everything happens in life. No one will feel bad if you hide some facts. And if you think that you will feel bad, then think about him. How will it be better for him? What truth would he like to know? As much as it will be good for him, so much will be good for you. You don't want to say that you can feel happy when something bothers your loved one.
To the question of the tax inspectorate: "How much did you earn?"
Of course, if it doesn't get away with you or a prison term, or, in the best case, a fine. But, as they say, don't give up on prison and money. Think ten times and do once. This is serious.
To the husband's question: "Honey, how much is your new handbag?"
Having learned the truth, a man may, at best, not understand, and at worst, not be able to stand it. And he will have a heart attack. Better take care of your husband, he is the only one you have.
You can probably find a dozen more situations where a little lie is better than a bitter truth. Now you have to answer the eternal question: "To lie or not to lie?". Share your thoughts on this.
We wish you as few situations as possible in which you have to lie to others!
