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It's always nice to know that people like you. It is especially nice to know that you are considered interesting and attractive by the stronger sex. When a woman has admirers, she is not afraid to be alone and becomes self-confident, and therefore even more attractive.
However, there are obsessive fans who do not bring any joy. Such men should be able to "sew away", but in such a way as not to seem rude or arrogant. If you act aggressively, you can become famous as an unfriendly lady and thereby lose most of your fans. How to behave?
In love
You can easily get out of an unpleasant situation for you if you tell an obsessive man that you are deeply and forever in love. It is not necessary to show him the object of your love (which may not exist). The main thing is that the fan believes you and gives up trying to get your location.
Not to my taste
If you are not a very compassionate lady, then you can honestly tell your man that he does not cause you warm feelings. Explain to him that he is not your taste at all, and there is no point in hoping that your tastes will ever change. It is unlikely that after such a confession, a man will want to continue to conquer you.
Friend
Invite the man to introduce him to his friend - "a very nice woman." At the same time, add that she has been dreaming of such a handsome man like him for a long time. Most likely, the fan will understand that you just want to get rid of him, and you won't even have to introduce him to anyone. If he agrees, then you will have to arrange a meeting, for this you will need to persuade one of your girlfriends to go on a date with him. Teach her in advance how to say no in case she doesn't like the man.
No
You should not respond to a fan's offer to go somewhere with the words: "I'm busy this day" or "Let's do it some other time." With these words, you give your man hope that you will go on a date with him in the future. It is better to answer honestly with a refusal. And refuse again and again until the man gets tired of knocking on closed doors.
Not funny
You should not joke and laugh when a fan compliments you and offers to see you again. He can take your laugh either as a joke or as a desire to continue communication. In the first case, the man will be offended, which you probably wouldn't want. In the second case, it will be difficult for you to explain that with your laughter you did not show your position towards him.
I already have
Every time a fan asks you out, say that you are seeing another man that night. At the same time, dreamily roll your eyes and start telling the suitor about your boyfriend. Tell him how smart, funny and generally your dream is. It is unlikely that a man will want to pursue you, knowing that you are starting a relationship with another person.
Ignore it
If all else fails, just ignore the man. Of course, it will be impolite if you turn away at a personal meeting and pretend that you are strangers. But there is no need to do this. Just don't answer his calls, don't read messages on social networks, delete his comments under your photos. If the guy is not a fool, he will understand that there is no point in pursuing your love. If he's a fool, then act more harshly - block him and don't say hello when you meet him.
Rejecting a man is not as difficult as it may seem at first glance. But maybe you shouldn't do that? If you are a free woman and looking for love, then it makes sense to talk to each of the suitors personally to understand which of them is worthy to become your beloved man.