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Psychologists say that after 30 years, people's circle of friends gradually decreases, and this is a normal phenomenon, you should not be afraid of this.
We tell you why the number of friends decreases with age.
Why do we lose friends with age: should we be afraid of it?
- Communication needs are changing. Usually, young people have a lot of friends and acquaintances with whom they spend all their free time. For them, communication is one of the ways to learn about the world, so they try to get to know and communicate with many people. With age, the circle of friends narrows significantly, because there is a need for deeper emotional connections and one does not want to waste time with those people who cannot provide a feeling of warmth and closeness.
- Homeland. At first, marriage can expand the circle of communication, people become closer to relatives and friends of the spouses. Gradually, the husband or wife assumes the function of a friend, providing moral support, understanding and physical help. The birth of children also affects the narrowing of the circle of communication. After all, children take a lot of time and attention, so friendships gradually disappear.
- Life circumstances. Friendships can end when someone moves, gets married, gets sick, etc. Psychologists have determined that 25% of people end their friendships because of conflicts or betrayals. A number of life circumstances and a lack of time quite often destroy friendships, there is a reluctance to maintain communication with previously close people.
However, psychologists recommend not to be afraid of losing friends, because time tests friendship for strength and authenticity. Therefore, only faithful people will remain with you, who will always be there, no matter what happens.
