Many couples prefer not to hurry with the conclusion of an official marriage, referring to the fact that the stamp in the passport does not change anything. It is necessary, so to speak, to "work out" the future life together to rub against each other. Let's consider together how dangerous a civil marriage is. First of all, for women.
Sometimes a man and a woman co-exist in the way that is customary and convenient for them, for years they are only verbally considered a "family". But there comes a moment when a "sobering" occurs: it's not the first year together, maybe there is a child, and not alone, but the visa is still there - whether it's a family or not!
What is dangerous civil marriage
It is not surprising that if men do not want to take steps towards the RAGS, after reading this headline, they will exclaim: "Nonsense!". And they will start giving many arguments, how they love their woman, how they take care of her, how... in general, they do everything that men in an official marriage do. And, no, not everything is as it seems. Let's consider simple examples.
A civil marriage does not always become official
No matter how much our beautiful women enjoy themselves, living together with a man under the same roof does not always end in marriage.
And why would a civil partner wish for something better, if everything is fine anyway: cared for, fed, pampered for many years. And if a beautiful nymph suddenly appears on the horizon, then no problem - I packed my things and left without any preamble.
And don't care that maybe he lived at your expense, waiting out the best times of his life, or that you diligently treated his wounded heart after the divorce... And if, God forbid, he took you in? You already understand and forgive, as they say, and move out of my apartment.
Difficulties in unforeseen situations
That's it, you broke up. After all, you can't prove with anything that it was purchased jointly, that time, money, and nerves were invested in it. And children born in such a union are practically illegitimate.
Let's imagine a terrible situation. Suddenly a loved one died (thu-thu-thu). Will you inherit anything? It is unlikely, unless he has transferred the apartment or car to you. In all other cases, the property will go to the relatives. Even if the breadwinner is lost, the child is not provided with any benefits.
"Uncomfortable" status among the family
Women in any marriage call their partner a man, while men call their partner a roommate, a lover, a friend, as a last resort. And how should his friends and relatives treat such a girlfriend? That's right, as in temporarily with them. That is... one today, another tomorrow, the third...
And to be honest, when a person really loves, he tries by all means to make his partner "his". Yes, yes, literally put a "stamp" on it, which is equivalent to a stamp in a passport. This speaks of the seriousness and desire for more than what is: your common home, your common children, your common friends and relatives...
The man offers to go to the registry office, declares: this is mine; I am ready to support, help, protect, answer for my actions and my actions. I'm ready to live and be around all the time, and not run away if something suddenly goes wrong, only to reappear later with a guilty head and as if nothing had happened to glue together the shards of a broken boat...
The probability of cohabitation with the wrong people
A civil marriage is, in fact, the friendship of two people who, for various reasons, came together and decided to live together. For example, it is quite often practiced by people who are not doing well in the home environment with their parents and they just want to take a suitcase and go to anyone who will offer a roof over their head.
Civil marriage is also often used by those who are completely irresponsible or who want to improve their social status at the expense of their partner. As an example, pimps or welfare hunters. And it is also an ideal solution for those who always want to have a "spare airfield"...
How long can a civil marriage last
A civil marriage has the right to exist, but only in the first year of life, when young people have met, fallen in love, want to start living together for further official life.
But only in the first year of life - this is emphasized by all psychologists who deal with relationship problems.
If the official proposal from the man does not come immediately, then the woman hardly needs to wait, it will not happen. Therefore, carefully study how dangerous a civil marriage is and whether it is worth living with a loved one for years in such an uncertain relationship.