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Trust is a fragile thing. Like a crystal vase, if you break it, you will not be able to glue it back together in its former form. There will still be cracks that will remind you of what happened. Trust can be lost very quickly, but it takes a long time to earn it, sometimes a lifetime.
It is not always easy to determine who from our environment will support and help in any situation. All because people change. There are certain signs that will help you understand whether you should trust a person or not. So, here are five types of people you can't trust:
Extremely nice and polite people
There are people who try to cast spells in order to cause harm in the future. Such people are very polite. They say words that are nice to hear and give lots of little gifts.
There is a certain difference between those who are really polite by nature and those who are only pretending to be. Truly polite individuals will not hesitate to tell you about themselves and their lives. Cheaters will tell you only fairy tales about themselves, and not a word of truth. Tales that are too good to be true.
People who do not know how to sympathize and empathize
People who can betray your trust do not know how to sympathize and empathize. All because they have no intention of putting themselves in another person's shoes. If they did, they would know what it feels like to be betrayed. But they only think about how to get a profit, despite the fact that they cause harm and pain in the process. If you meet such a person, be careful.
People who can't keep secrets
If someone from your environment (even if it is a close friend) has a habit of telling you other people's secrets, be sure that he will also tell your secrets. Have you decided to trust such a person with something about yourself that no one should know? Be sure, soon everyone will know about it. Such people simply do not understand why it is so important to keep the secrets entrusted to them. If it is possible to get some benefit from this, then they will definitely spoil everything.
People with a narcissist complex
Such people consider themselves the center of the universe. They will convince you of their own importance. They will flatter you so that you open up to them and get closer to them. But... When something goes wrong as planned, such a person does not admit his mistakes. She will twist the story of the event in such a way as to blame you for everything. It will vividly tell about how you forced her to do certain actions that turned out to be wrong. She will even try to turn everything around as if she herself is a victim of your actions.
Beware of such people. The most important thing for them is their ego.
People who can't decide
You can't rely on indecisive people. You can never know for sure if such a person really supports you or not. In addition, such people do not have a clear position. They are fickle in their thinking. Today such a person may say yes to you, and tomorrow his opinion will change to the opposite. You can't be sure of anything.
